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Managing Mom and Dad's Money
For many adult children, helping an aging parent starts with something simple. Maybe it's driving Mom to a doctor's appointment, picking up groceries, helping with a bill, or making a phone call to an insurance company. But over time, caregiving can involve something many families don't expect: helping manage a parent's finances. You may find yourself helping with bills, reviewing statements, keeping track of insurance, organizing financial documents, or helping your parent u
Kimberly Whiter
Oct 64 min read


Could Medicaid Take Your Parent's Home After They Die? What Families Should Know About Estate Recovery
For many older adults, their home is their biggest asset. It may also be the asset they most want to leave to their children. So, when Medicaid becomes part of the long-term care conversation, families often have one very important question: Can Medicaid take my parent’s house after they die? The answer isn't a simple yes or no. Medicaid has something called estate recovery, which may allow the state to recover certain costs it paid for a person's care after that person dies.
Kimberly Whiter
Sep 183 min read


The Rising Cost of Eldercare: What Families Need to Know
The cost of caring for an aging loved one is becoming one of the biggest financial challenges facing American families. For many families, eldercare costs are no longer something they can simply deal with when the need arises. Long-term care can last years, and the financial impact can extend far beyond. A recent Business Insider report on the rising cost of long-term care highlights a growing problem: families are increasingly struggling to afford the care their aging loved
Kimberly Whiter
Aug 243 min read


One Of The Biggest Costs of Caregiving: Time.
One of the highest costs doesn't show up on a credit card statement. It's time. The average family caregiver spends 27 hours every week caring for a loved one. Nearly 1 in 4 caregivers provides more than 40 hours of care each week. That’s taking on a second full-time job! How are they spending those hours? driving to appointments helping with medications researching options filling out paperwork coordinating with siblings making phone calls managing finances The majority of
Kimberly Whiter
Jul 21 min read


I Love My Parents. I Do Not Love Their Filing System
There comes a moment in many adult children's lives when they realize their parents have a filing system. Unfortunately, it often consists of several shoeboxes, a kitchen drawer, three reusable grocery bags, and a mysterious pile of papers that has been sitting on the dining room table since the Obama administration. I recently worked with a family whose father confidently told us, "Everything important is right here." He then opened a closet. Inside were tax returns, insuran
Kimberly Whiter
Jun 152 min read


How to Set Boundaries While Caring for Aging Parents
Many adult children step into caregiving because they want to give back to the people who once cared for them. Then caregiving becomes emotionally, physically, and financially overwhelming. Sometimes this is due to unclear boundaries. Many caregivers feel guilty saying “no,” asking for help, or taking time for themselves. Over time, this can lead to exhaustion, resentment, anxiety, and burnout. Setting boundaries can create a sustainable plan that protects your mental and ph
Kimberly Whiter
May 212 min read


How to Pay for Long-Term Care Without Draining Your Family’s Savings
When a loved one needs long-term care, most families are unprepared for how quickly the costs can add up. What begins as a manageable expense can turn into months—or even years—of financial strain, forcing families to make difficult decisions under pressure. The good news is this: paying for long-term care does not have to mean sacrificing your family’s financial security. With early planning and a clear understanding of your options, families can move forward with confidence
Kimberly Whiter
Jan 192 min read


Empowered to Care
Feeling empowered when caring for an aging loved one is likely not that common. But, what would it be like to feel empowered?
Kimberly Whiter
Jan 10, 20233 min read


Important Documents for Aging and Caring
If you are aging or caring there are IMPORTANT documents you should have in place. It's easy to put this off. This is why you shouldn't.
Kimberly Whiter
Dec 16, 20224 min read


The Financial Advantages of a Family Care Agreement
A family care agreement allows a family to conserve energy and resources, open possibilities for securing help, and has financial benefits.
Kimberly Whiter
Dec 15, 20225 min read
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