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I Love My Parents. I Do Not Love Their Filing System
By Kimberly Whiter There comes a moment in many adult children's lives when they realize their parents have a filing system. Unfortunately, it often consists of several shoeboxes, a kitchen drawer, three reusable grocery bags, and a mysterious pile of papers that has been sitting on the dining room table since the Obama administration. I recently worked with a family whose father confidently told us, "Everything important is right here." He then opened a closet. Inside were t
Kimberly Whiter
2 days ago2 min read


How to Set Boundaries While Caring for Aging Parents
By Kimberly Whiter Many adult children step into caregiving because they want to give back to the people who once cared for them. Then caregiving becomes emotionally, physically, and financially overwhelming. Sometimes this is due to unclear boundaries. Many caregivers feel guilty saying “no,” asking for help, or taking time for themselves. Over time, this can lead to exhaustion, resentment, anxiety, and burnout. Setting boundaries can create a sustainable plan that protects
Kimberly Whiter
May 212 min read


How to Pay for Long-Term Care Without Draining Your Family’s Savings
When a loved one needs long-term care, most families are unprepared for how quickly the costs can add up. What begins as a manageable expense can turn into months—or even years—of financial strain, forcing families to make difficult decisions under pressure. The good news is this: paying for long-term care does not have to mean sacrificing your family’s financial security. With early planning and a clear understanding of your options, families can move forward with confidence
Kimberly Whiter
Jan 192 min read


Empowered to Care
Feeling empowered when caring for an aging loved one is likely not that common. But, what would it be like to feel empowered?
Kimberly Whiter
Jan 10, 20233 min read


Important Documents for Aging and Caring
If you are aging or caring there are IMPORTANT documents you should have in place. It's easy to put this off. This is why you shouldn't.
Kimberly Whiter
Dec 16, 20224 min read


The Financial Advantages of a Family Care Agreement
A family care agreement allows a family to conserve energy and resources, open possibilities for securing help, and has financial benefits.
Kimberly Whiter
Dec 15, 20225 min read
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